tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2978459861373615747.post1790339208847815072..comments2024-01-25T13:25:02.195+00:00Comments on Life Unexpected: Don't Take My Baby!Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07693927098032739132noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2978459861373615747.post-9482801645700855352012-03-20T18:56:06.855+00:002012-03-20T18:56:06.855+00:00How are you and Noah? I hope you are both doing gr...How are you and Noah? I hope you are both doing great! :-)) xLaurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07693927098032739132noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2978459861373615747.post-42024864859031490432012-03-20T18:54:27.010+00:002012-03-20T18:54:27.010+00:00I love this Kat, I feel exactly the same and just ...I love this Kat, I feel exactly the same and just don't want to be parted from him. I feel that my love and care exceeds anything else anyone can give him. That is not me being selfish and controlling. That is me being his Mummy.<br /><br />I love your reasons, and I intend to use them. I do feel it is a conversation my other half should have though. So if and when the subject comes back up. He will be informed what he must say! I just hope he sees where I am coming from....<br /><br />Thanks Kat :-) xxLaurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07693927098032739132noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2978459861373615747.post-84999199420633321292012-03-20T18:50:35.388+00:002012-03-20T18:50:35.388+00:00Eek 6 days! Everyone is different like you say, bu...Eek 6 days! Everyone is different like you say, but I have always tried to sleep when he does. We have had some lovely naps!<br />It is a hard thought going back to work, but at least you know he will be in capable hands, with you Mum. <br />I am back in July, just after Leo's first birthday. xxLaurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07693927098032739132noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2978459861373615747.post-13812493243143306952012-03-20T00:23:19.879+00:002012-03-20T00:23:19.879+00:00A friend of mine let another friend take her baby ...A friend of mine let another friend take her baby out for the day when she was 6 days old, as she really wanted some sleep. I still find this mortifying! Everyone is different I guess. I will go back to work 2 days a week when Dylan is 9 months and my mum will have him one of those days,- going to find that so strange!Bexhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13738510607514798820noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2978459861373615747.post-73553914651195841532012-03-20T00:13:52.011+00:002012-03-20T00:13:52.011+00:00Noah is 3 and no one has taken him out! I had the ...Noah is 3 and no one has taken him out! I had the breast feeding excuse for the first 14 months but even now people wouldn't suggest it as my other half and I have made it clear he is our son and he is too young to be without a parent (we just don't trust anyone to look after him like we do). It might be a bit over protective at 3 but because we never took that chance when he was small we now wouldn't cope with worry if we let someone take him - bit of a double edged sword! The mere fact they are telling not asking would be enough for me to say no way! Tell them he is teething or not sleeping and very clingy with mummy and you would not feel comfortable putting him in a position where he can't see you if he needs you...or just tell them to sod off he is yours! xKatnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2978459861373615747.post-42439777460814451602012-03-19T23:34:13.446+00:002012-03-19T23:34:13.446+00:00I think at 8 weeks you don't expect to have an...I think at 8 weeks you don't expect to have anyone saying they are taking your newborn out. I don't know why visiting, while he is in my care a problem? I wish I had the breast feeding as a reason!<br /><br />I may just have to put my foot down, I just hate looking like an ogre. But then I shouldn't be put in this position anyway! I still feel he is too young, I am not comfortable with it. Your little one is a few months younger than Leo :-)) xxLaurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07693927098032739132noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2978459861373615747.post-33018431468872156382012-03-19T23:13:41.151+00:002012-03-19T23:13:41.151+00:00At 8 weeks I would not have let him out of my sigh...At 8 weeks I would not have let him out of my sight, but luckily I had no one interfering in that. As I breastfed I had the inbuilt excuse as well. In fact it was great that no matter where I was, he got passed back to me when he cried as I was the only one who could feed him. He is 7 months now and I still haven't let anyone take him for the day so I know how you feel!Bexhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13738510607514798820noreply@blogger.com