tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2978459861373615747.post3688689454022550436..comments2024-01-25T13:25:02.195+00:00Comments on Life Unexpected: Shhh...Who Knows About You're Blog?Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07693927098032739132noreply@blogger.comBlogger27125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2978459861373615747.post-29633945900660717972013-06-16T16:31:34.940+01:002013-06-16T16:31:34.940+01:00It's remarkable for me to have a website, whic...It's remarkable for me to have a website, which is good in support of my knowledge. thanks admin<br /><br />my blog post: See Us (<a href="http://www.kenia4you.de/tikiwiki/tiki-index.php?page=UserPagejoannecottingham" rel="nofollow"></a>)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2978459861373615747.post-82768430169624433132012-03-05T06:49:45.989+00:002012-03-05T06:49:45.989+00:00I have just started blogging and was debating abou...I have just started blogging and was debating about the same thing. Should I share with my friends and family or not. So far I haven't as it might change my writing style. My husband knows but doesn't really have the time to read my blog so I think this suits me fine for now.Katherine Nataliahttp://www.lifewithkids.co.uknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2978459861373615747.post-85290725021439718762012-03-03T20:24:34.244+00:002012-03-03T20:24:34.244+00:00Thank you so much for posting :-) I hope you and T...Thank you so much for posting :-) I hope you and Ted are both well!<br /><br />Maybe the leak was a good thing? I can see both sides of the coin really. As I think it would be nice to share the link but at the same time I do like the freedom of not having friends and family reading. Maybe one day!<br /><br />Like you said they can just close the page down! At the end of the day lovely, your blog is your own personal space. If they wish to step into that space then they have to accept your opinions. Especially in regards to Ted. Mummy knows best!<br /><br />xxLaurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07693927098032739132noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2978459861373615747.post-1102775100203502842012-03-03T20:10:05.398+00:002012-03-03T20:10:05.398+00:00Hi, here I am at last! As promised...
My blog was...Hi, here I am at last! As promised...<br /><br />My blog was secret to start with. A couple of people knew I was writing one but I didn't share any details with them and they didn't ask. BabyDaddy knew about it and where it was but didn't want to invade my privacy. I did pass him my phone after I'd written the One Born post about him (and he shed a little tear) but he's never asked to see anything else, and I really appreciate that.<br /><br />I have a twitter account for my blog and one for me, but at some point I'd added a couple of Mum-types on my own account and shared my blog with one of them. My brother saw the link and later sent me a tweet telling me how good he thought my writing was and that I should do more of it. I was really pleased and didn't mind that he'd read it (I also didn't think he'd read it that regularly so I didn't feel as though it would be a problem).<br /><br />Then, somehow, a few other people told me they'd read it - probably also through that Twitter slip - and eventually I shared a link on my personal Facebook as I needed some help with something. I regret that now as I miss the anonymity. I know there are people who read it who I would really like to talk about sometimes, but at least it reminds me to be careful what I say.<br /><br />It does feel strange knowing that my family read it and sometimes I worry that they'll judge the things I decide for Ted, or that the topics I write about are silly, or that because I have strong opinions I might offend them, but then I tell myself that they're the same as any of my other readers - they can choose to close the page if they don't like it!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2978459861373615747.post-51148186615493415042012-03-03T20:01:11.602+00:002012-03-03T20:01:11.602+00:00Hi, here I am at last! As promised...
My blog was...Hi, here I am at last! As promised...<br /><br />My blog was secret to start with. A couple of people knew I was writing one but I didn't share any details with them and they didn't ask. BabyDaddy knew about it and where it was but didn't want to invade my privacy. I did pass him my phone after I'd written the One Born post about him (and he shed a little tear) but he's never asked to see anything else, and I really appreciate that.<br /><br />I have a twitter account for my blog and one for me, but at some point I'd added a couple of Mum-types on my own account and shared my blog with one of them. My brother saw the link and later sent me a tweet telling me how good he thought my writing was and that I should do more of it. I was really pleased and didn't mind that he'd read it (I also didn't think he'd read it that regularly so I didn't feel as though it would be a problem).<br /><br />Then, somehow, a few other people told me they'd read it - probably also through that Twitter slip - and eventually I shared a link on my personal Facebook as I needed some help with something. I regret that now as I miss the anonymity. I know there are people who read it who I would really like to talk about sometimes, but at least it reminds me to be careful what I say.<br /><br />It does feel strange knowing that my family read it and sometimes I worry that they'll judge the things I decide for Ted, or that the topics I write about are silly, or that because I have strong opinions I might offend them, but then I tell myself that they're the same as any of my other readers - they can choose to close the page if they don't like it!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2978459861373615747.post-55714504588690743012012-03-02T14:01:45.988+00:002012-03-02T14:01:45.988+00:00Hi Sarah, It must be so lovely that everyone knows...Hi Sarah, It must be so lovely that everyone knows. I don't think I am quite ready to share yet...I think it would put me off writing quite so openly. Thanks for commenting xxLaurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07693927098032739132noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2978459861373615747.post-47172842160079919692012-03-02T14:00:31.570+00:002012-03-02T14:00:31.570+00:00Nope you are not the Blogger hiding away in the cl...Nope you are not the Blogger hiding away in the closet! I am amazed at how many of us actually do keep them on the low. It is kind of re-assuring. <br />Thanks for the comment xLaurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07693927098032739132noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2978459861373615747.post-77612584203494650102012-03-02T13:29:06.317+00:002012-03-02T13:29:06.317+00:00Everyone knows about my blog, sometimes i think it...Everyone knows about my blog, sometimes i think it's be nice to post annon because you could rant abit more with no come back, but on the whole it doesn't matter to me :)Sarahmumof3https://www.blogger.com/profile/03928332640674423684noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2978459861373615747.post-28580487810669233012012-03-02T12:39:09.326+00:002012-03-02T12:39:09.326+00:00Glad to know that I'm not the only blogger in ...Glad to know that I'm not the only blogger in the closet. My OH doesn't know (even though one of my kids kinda does!). The only people that know are 3 friends and one of them I inspired to blog herself. I have seperate twitter and FB accounts and a seperate email address for the blog!<br />BNMFfihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17315244804180176228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2978459861373615747.post-18176805037267303632012-03-02T12:03:45.892+00:002012-03-02T12:03:45.892+00:00Thanks Pippa.
What kind of response did you get wh...Thanks Pippa.<br />What kind of response did you get when you went open?Laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07693927098032739132noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2978459861373615747.post-82020770244468753052012-03-02T11:45:17.757+00:002012-03-02T11:45:17.757+00:00I used to keep my secret, but now everyone knows a...I used to keep my secret, but now everyone knows and to be honest I don't know why I kept it a secret as it's not like I'm telling anyone anything that they couldn't see on FB or Twitter anyway!PippaDhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15874707231134755321noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2978459861373615747.post-64367593475652343222012-03-01T21:32:46.988+00:002012-03-01T21:32:46.988+00:00I think you got it in one earlier lovely, It is a ...I think you got it in one earlier lovely, It is a really good way to vent! Let all your feelings out and then also have it to reflect on later. <br /><br />It is a real eye opener to know that lots of Mummy bloggers keep their blogs quiet. <br /><br />xxLaurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07693927098032739132noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2978459861373615747.post-36336133749631066182012-03-01T21:11:25.886+00:002012-03-01T21:11:25.886+00:00The only person that probably knows about my blog ...The only person that probably knows about my blog is Mr.L. I do mention it now and again but more of a slip of tongue. I guess I have a few reasons keeping it a secret. 1st cause I probably write a bunch of crap LOL!! But its mostly a place for me to just release all my thoughts and feelings, a place to escape and tell the things I wouldn't tell the people that are closest to me or I love. A few months ago I was diagnosed with post natal depression so in away helps me to release. xxAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17346645520169623041noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2978459861373615747.post-79562267624449722202012-03-01T20:51:15.266+00:002012-03-01T20:51:15.266+00:00Hey lovely! Thanks for taking the time to comment....Hey lovely! Thanks for taking the time to comment. Was your other half surprised that you had decided to start a blog? I wonder if your freinds have had a sneak peak! hehe...There is only one person I actually know on my followers list!<br /><br />It can be our little secret! xxLaurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07693927098032739132noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2978459861373615747.post-37113138420597294532012-03-01T20:03:18.347+00:002012-03-01T20:03:18.347+00:00Only my OH knows about my blog but he doesn't ...Only my OH knows about my blog but he doesn't really read it... well not that i know of!! Lol :D I post about it on Twitter but I don't really have any followers that are family, I have a few friends on there but they haven't mentioned anything to me.<br /><br />I might tell them when it's a little more advanced but until then its my little secret!!<br /><br />Nicola Xx<br />nicolabear987.blogspot.comLife Through My Eyeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08084581258027603757noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2978459861373615747.post-71151803630790222022012-02-27T21:37:56.340+00:002012-02-27T21:37:56.340+00:00Evening, thanks very much for commenting and provi...Evening, thanks very much for commenting and providing another opinion, it is appreciated.<br /><br />I think it is great that you are raising awareness, what better way to do it! It is really a great way to get all your feelings out in the open. <br /><br />Thank you xLaurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07693927098032739132noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2978459861373615747.post-59094061085897232022012-02-27T20:47:09.306+00:002012-02-27T20:47:09.306+00:00Ive only just stumbled across your blog via twitte...Ive only just stumbled across your blog via twitter and this is the first post ive read. Ive put my blog on my personal fb page and family and friends can read if they want. Ive nothing to hide and feel that i am entitled to my opinion and my choices in life, even if they dont like reading it. I do get your reasons for not sharing with family, but for me i am wanting to spread awareness about my sons syndrome and our daily struggles, and to be honest i hope my family and friends do read do that they too gain awareness and can maybe realise what i go through. <br /><br />Look forward to reading more of your posts.The Marquickshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07532097407447008039noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2978459861373615747.post-89947694428012523682012-02-24T20:51:54.191+00:002012-02-24T20:51:54.191+00:00I think it is great that you are comfortable enoug...I think it is great that you are comfortable enough to share your blog with friends and family. If I was brave enough I think I would...but for now I shall hide in my cyber closet! Have they all been supportive? <br />It is their loss for not reading :-D<br />Thanks lovely xxxLaurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07693927098032739132noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2978459861373615747.post-48208265667315088632012-02-24T20:44:12.523+00:002012-02-24T20:44:12.523+00:00Hi Vikki, Thank's so much for your comment, an...Hi Vikki, Thank's so much for your comment, and the blog compliemts *blushes*.<br /><br />It has been a real eye opener knowing that I am not the only one that keeps the Blog on the low. Yeah that's exactly what I thought. We pretty much bare all online to people we form an online relationship with...but I think it is different to share it with friends and family? <br /><br />It has been great getting to know people in the same boat as me, from all walks of life and I have found you all so amazing :-) <br /><br />Thank you! xxxLaurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07693927098032739132noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2978459861373615747.post-48559039912189867972012-02-24T20:42:00.958+00:002012-02-24T20:42:00.958+00:00I am very open about my blog, but I'm very sel...I am very open about my blog, but I'm very selective about what I choose to post. There are days where I know I could write a killer post about a family member or coworker or something that would just be airing a little too much dirty laundry. I have a separate Facebook for non IRL friends but so far only actual friends have "Liked" it. My Twitter is open to anyone but I don't get AS personal on it as I do on my private Facebook. My friends are supportive mostly - I know some don't read and that's upsetting - but that's their choice. Enjoying your blog and happy to have found it!Michelle Longohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15437193620480920753noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2978459861373615747.post-12031468894372947692012-02-24T20:33:01.305+00:002012-02-24T20:33:01.305+00:00I'm glad i'm not the only one then cos i d...I'm glad i'm not the only one then cos i do the exact same. I've got a seperate twitter and facebook account and the only ones that know about my blog at the mo are my sister and partner. As much as i'd love to tell everyone, i think there's some things i'd like to keep private. Which is weird when you think we share so much with people we dont know that well.....maybe thats a benefit?! Love your blog by the way lovely :) xxxVikki @ Mummys Cheeky Monkeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16255155969359131695noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2978459861373615747.post-84071869030403365162012-02-24T12:40:55.363+00:002012-02-24T12:40:55.363+00:00Thanks Neil.
Was your wife suprised about the Bl...Thanks Neil. <br /><br />Was your wife suprised about the Blog? I really love to see Daddy Blogs. What made you start one? <br /><br />I would be knocked for 6 if my other half started one, but I think that it's such a lovely thing to do!<br /><br />I agree 100%, there are somethings that friends and family...shouldn't know :-) xxLaurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07693927098032739132noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2978459861373615747.post-65101923754981295992012-02-24T12:31:43.562+00:002012-02-24T12:31:43.562+00:00My wife knows about my blog and my Twitter followe...My wife knows about my blog and my Twitter followers.<br /><br />I've not told my friends/ acquaintances about my blog because I choose to keep some things private from them. My blog, particularly the first few entries, was personal to my family and there are some things you don't want everyone to know about. <br /><br />Neil (@Living_with_LC)Neil Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02031274104010716757noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2978459861373615747.post-89588693567550089622012-02-24T12:05:16.414+00:002012-02-24T12:05:16.414+00:00Thank you! I think that is part of my reasoning be...Thank you! I think that is part of my reasoning behind it all. How did you feel when your sister shared the link on Facebook?<br /><br />You shouldn't be scared of judgement lovely, as long as you write your opinions and how you feel, you should be proud! <br /><br />Thanks so much for all your help i.e with the comments. The word verification is now gone! Yay! xxxLaurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07693927098032739132noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2978459861373615747.post-59146891354985934352012-02-24T12:00:20.823+00:002012-02-24T12:00:20.823+00:00Thanks for the comment :-) I think your other half...Thanks for the comment :-) I think your other half would be really impressed if she knew. Is this something you would share with her. I think I am going to have to come over to your Blog and have a read of your rants! I am very intrigued hehe...<br /><br />Thanks again! xxLaurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07693927098032739132noreply@blogger.com